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SADIE T. TILLIS “Home of the Panthers” VOLUNTEER HANDBOOK 2007-2008 Tangela Johnson, Principal Stacy Cox, Volunteer Coordinator Darlene McCloud, Volunteer Coordinator
Relationships with Students You will want to set a positive, friendly tone when working with students... a mood that promotes good feelings and learning. It takes time and patience to build the desired relationship in which you and the student(s) feel comfortable. Names are important to people. Learn the students' names and their correct pronunciations as soon as you can. Also be certain students know what you want to be called. Give honest, specific, and deserved praise for student achievement and effort. Success breeds success, and you are in a unique position to focus on students' strengths and positive behavior. When you must criticize, keep it constructive and try to preface the corrective remark with something positive or encouraging. A light or witty comment helps mistakes seem less tragic. Realize that most young people have short attention spans. Make every effort to respond to a child's need for movement and variety. If students are restless, disinterested, chatty, or misbehaving, they are probably not learning much, and you may end up frustrated. If you are tutoring an individual, take breaks as needed. If you are helping a small group, refocus their attention and spark their interest if students get distracted. If you are making a special presentation to the class, be flexible and aware of cues from the students that it is time to move on or switch gears. Be patient. Sometimes progress is slow. All children are different, but each has the same need for you attention and interest in his/her accomplishments. Your warmth and enthusiasm have a very positive effect on children. Show simple gestures of caring... a smile, a pat on the back, a high five! Treat students with the courtesy and respect, which you expect in return. And if you do not get these desired responses from a student, try not to take it personally. Assume that the child is having a problem, which is not related to you. Be fair, consistent, and impartial; and, by all means, keep your sense of humor! Model proper language usage. Children learn language from the language they hear. Expect to hear some fantasies, tall tales, and incorrect and unacceptable language. Some children hear language and see behavior at home, which is not acceptable at school. Instead of criticizing a child's home, explain the type of language and behavior that are appropriate for school use. Make good use of wait time. It is easier to maintain discipline when students are busy at worthwhile, interesting tasks with little time to get bored and restless. If possible, fill transition moments with a thought-provoking question, a riddle, a song, a mini-activity, or encouragement to reflect on the day or the lesson. Young people love to voice their opinions and know they are heard. Try to enjoy children because they are different rather than merely tolerating differences. Look for the unique contribution each student can make. And, on the subject of absences...if you have a close relationship with a student, such as in a tutoring situation, be sensitive to the possibility that she/he might take your absence personally. A special message to that student might alleviate this potential problem. School Procedures Volunteers are asked to give special attention to the following procedures:
Teachers You will be working with teachers, substitute teachers, teacher assistants, and other volunteers. A few reminders might help foster good relations among the many busy adults giving their time to help children.
Strive toward a comfortable working relationship with the teachers, but don't take each other for granted. Treat one another with courtesy, respect, and appreciation.
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