In The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey, "Be Proactive" is the first habit, and it emphasizes taking responsibility for your life and making choices rather than being controlled by circumstances or emotions. This means focusing on what you can control and choosing to act in a way that aligns with your values, rather than reacting to external factors.
Here's a more detailed breakdown of what "Be Proactive" entails:
Taking Responsibility:
Proactive individuals understand that they are in charge of their lives and choose their actions and attitudes. They don't blame external factors or other people for their choices or the outcome of their actions.
Focusing on What You Can Control:
Proactive people focus on the things they can directly influence, such as their own choices and behavior. They don't waste time worrying about things they cannot control.
The term "response-ability" refers to the ability to choose your response to a situation. Reactive individuals are often controlled by external factors, while proactive individuals have the freedom to choose their response.
Positive Language:
Proactive language expresses a sense of agency and control. For example, saying "I can learn to ride a bike" instead of "You are making me mad!".
Forward-Thinking:
Proactive leaders anticipate challenges and opportunities and take steps to prepare for the future. They focus on creating a positive vision and setting strategic goals.
Not Reactive:
Reactive individuals are often controlled by their emotions, the actions of others, or external events. They may blame others, make excuses, or allow negative emotions to control their behavior.